Alabama won the National Championship and it was the 2nd biggest story of the night for me

My man Nick Saban rolled to his 5th National Title in 9 years and kept the ROLL TIDE dynasty moving with an outstanding win in an unbelievable game.   Some are saying it was the greatest game of the decade.   It was pretty epic.

More than anything I was inspired and moved almost to tears by the actions of one player.  The player that got benched.  The player that had been 25-2 in his career coming into the game.  The player who struggled.

Jalen Hurts.

Prior to the game I didn’t have much feeling for him one way or another.   He was mainly a running QB playing on a team with a great defense and great tradition.

But on this night he didn’t have his best stuff.  And when they went in at halftime down 13-0, he was playing poorly.

Keep in mind Hurts was the PLAYER OF THE YEAR the prior year in the SEC Conference as a true freshman.   He was THE MAN.

But on this night he was benched.  Nick Saban went into the locker room at halftime and told him and his back up (Tua Tagovailoa), “we’re gonna rotate QB’S in the  2ND half and  Tua is gonna start us off”.

Wow.   The National Championship and you’re benched at halftime.  That’s gotta sting.

So how do you respond?

Well folks it was inspiring.  He was the biggest cheerleader for the back up QB in the 2nd half.  He was first off the sideline to congratulate him when he made a great play.  He was totally ENGAGED with him on the sidelines.  Keep in mind his back up was a TRUE FRESHMAN who was playing on a high school football field a year ago.   You think it was helpful to Tua to have last year’s player of the year pushing him forward and encouraging him?   Think it helped his performance?  I think it did.  I think it was a difference maker.

I know 40 year old’s who would have pouted if they got benched.  This kid was in the GAME OF HIS LIFE, and he had the poise and inner strength to not make it about him………he made it about the team.  And I can’t stop thinking about it.

And moreover, how come Jalen Hurts wasn’t rooting for him to not do well so he could get back in like so many other kids would?   After all, Saban said “we’re gonna rotate in the 2nd half”……………  Well I’m not sure but I got the tape queued up so I can show my future children what being a great teammate looks like.   Jalen Hurts showed us.

And it was so epic.

D.Hall

Consideration.

“It’s the greatest path to peace of mind.”    -Jeffrey T. Klein

Klein is a good friend of mine.  When he sent me this in a text, it immediately impacted my overall thinking.

So many of us have our own ideas and thought processes that are hard wired.  Too infrequently do we live in consideration.  Consideration, deep consideration, for others is without a doubt the greatest path to peace of mind.

The substitution of habitual thoughts is key.  And you have to be aware of your thoughts to make this happen.   Instead of getting incredibly frustrated with that dumbass in the meeting or your family member who makes the worst decisions, consider why they are who they are.  What are THEY going through?  Why do they conduct themselves the way they do? Or even….what is it about them you find so frustrating? Why is that? Is it something they’re doing or is it how you were raised?

Think about how often it happens to you in life.  Inevitably, you experience thoughts that lack consideration multiple times throughout your day or week.  I do, too.   The waiter not going fast enough for you.  The lady at the checkout counter a little spacey.  You don’t like how the guy negotiating the deal with you is going about things.  How were THEY raised?  What values were THEY taught at a young age that are in conflict with yours?  Think about what they may be going through or maybe the advantages you have had that they have not.

CONSIDERATION.  There is no other way to live.  And maybe you’ll make them (and yourself) a little better in the process.

Think about something you are terrible at.  Now imagine if you had to perform doing it without much practice….or guidance.  That might be what someone else is going through right in front of your eyes. Maybe they have never had someone step up to show them a different way.

Every day you likely meet with friends, family, and coworkers you don’t always appreciate or get along with. This week, I challenge you to reflect on why that is.

Is there anything more important than peace of mind?   You can control it more starting tomorrow by implementing consideration.

Happy Sunday Morning. Have a beautiful week considering and make it a noteworthy one.

D.Hall